There are so many choices with life today and we all can only barely scratch the surface, so rather than spend time worrying about what you could do, invest your time and energy in what you are doing
Invest in today…
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Illusive search…
On the illusive search for that complimentary being,
the one who transforms you,
who makes u feel better just knowing her….
Trust your feelings..
Many would express concerns in this rush of emotions but age and experience has taught that time isn’t what is important but what you feel and know to be true.
There is no point in growing and experiencing if it cannot be used to judge and trust how you feel.
I know what I feel right now and what I feel is ……
Can you feel…
Can you feel that warmth,
can you sense that distraction – I do.
I hold you close but just out of reach
I crave your attention – your words.
Are you aware of the closeness despite the distance,
are you next to me in want – I am
The invisible embrace of you.
The constant picture, that inside smile.
Our Pledge ….
I wrote this some time ago to try and capture what i would pledge in a relationship – would you and your partner sign??
Our Pledge
We pledge ourselves to a partnership built on trust, honesty, respect, understanding, compassion, commitment, patience and most of all love.
We are committed
• to each other and our families
• to keeping our love strong
• to being an example of a great relationship by being ‘together, together’
• to knowing and seeking out what makes each other happy and working on it daily
We will :
• resolve our differences before going to bed
• continue to talk with each other regardless of the subject and even if we do not feel like it
• continue to discover new things about each other
• make each other a priority in our daily lives
• greet each other with passion and desire
• encourage each other in the things that make us happy
• recognize we have flaws, accept them and embrace the positives
• deal with conflict in a productive manner being kind and gentle, never shaming or blaming
• always support each other and will never let each other feel alone
• keep each other warm at night
• share our love of coffee, music, reading and art continually
• express our inner most thoughts, feelings and desires to each other and no one else
Finally
We will never forget why we love each other and how we fell in love
To show up or not..
So brave to show up present, so cruel to not.
To feel and relinquish control and yet to then lose it.
It changed in a matter of seconds, ripped my insides and there is no cure.
My mind before so calm and tranquil now won’t let me sleep.
It is one more blow that will lead to my hearts destruction.
That feeling…
Can you feel the excitement under the surface…
It will come as a surprise and creep up on you.
You cant force it or rush it even though we try.
What you can do is be open and welcoming and above all ready
When it comes it will inspire, transform and change you from the inside.
It will grow and make you full and nourish your very core
It will spread throughout and renew you.
Random thoughts…..
I was searching through previous writings and came across this collection 🙂
Lean closer i will keep you warm
Lean closer I will hold you,
Lean closer I will kiss you,
Lean closer still and I will never let go.
The kiss changes everything,
Clear thoughts are gone – reason thrown to the winds to float away,
Lost in the moment, anything possible
Take me away and don’t let me return.
I close my eyes and trace your face in every detail.
I miss the chance to run my fingers along the contours.
To explore each small piece that tells the story of your sorrow and joy.
I only wish I created some of that happiness before you left.
We hang on so long hoping ….
Is the time spent in joy or will anxiety and fear win out.
The battlefield defenses go up and we prepare.
What a waste of energy –
Oh
To embrace rather than push back,
To open rather than close,
To be present rather than absent,
To live rather than stagnate.
Only one life to make it right.
Is it going to be a life of what ifs or what I choose.
Is it time to let others drive or take control.
Come be my co pilot 🙂
My heart collapses in on itself – it feels small and helpless and you take it and breath life back in
Try another approach…
The need to try something new – step out and slide that foot onto thin ice
Don’t accept the easy route – be prepared to work – for it will be worth it
Change the approach and believe in it – listen to friends and accept the risk
She’s out there and today she is closer than yesterday…
As you look for that deep down connection with someone and struggling to find it, do you wonder if that unknown ability to connect and feel lost and yet found in someone else is maybe dying within due to hurt, disappointment or fear.
Maybe the hurt the last time made it hid for safety
Maybe the disappointment was too much to risk again
Maybe the fear will never be overcome…
My Complimentary Being 