I was watching a UK show last night when the main character is bringing his dad home from hospital and his dad wants to sit and look out into the ocean. He tells his son he just wants to sit and then says to his son “You don’t look do you? You don’t look at the world. You just drive straight through it. Stop. And look.” His dad heads to sit down and his wife says she will sit with him. Next his dad turns and says “Find someone to sit with you. You’re not strong enough to do it on your own. Nobody is. Find someone to sit with you.”

Sometimes the true reflection of your intimacy and closeness with your partner is being able to know they will just sit with you. For those with someone to sit next too – enjoy and dont take for granted.

I continue my search…